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Relationship struggles and emotional pain

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Kalimba

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Things were going pretty smoothly between us, or so I thought. Then came the moment that left me feeling abandoned and hurt, like the ground had shifted beneath me. I tried to share some dreams I'd had about him—dreams that felt strangely vivid and meaningful. But when I opened up, hoping we'd have a constructive talk about it, his reaction was like a cold breeze cutting through my hopeful warmth.

He didn't seem interested, and that rejection hit hard. It was confusing, to say the least. Here I was, trying to bridge a gap with something that felt real to me, only to be met with indifference. Yet as much as it stings, I'm trying not to let anger get the best of me.

Anger would just add weight to this already heavy heart. Instead, I'm left waiting—floating somewhere between hope and uncertainty about what’s next for us. Maybe this will turn out better than past situations, who knows? The emotional strain is real, though. Still, I've learned the hard way that letting everything fall apart isn’t the answer. It never really fixes anything in the end.
 
I'm really sorry to hear what you’re going through right now. It sounds like a tough situation.

Can you share a bit more about your relationship? Is it completely online, or do you see each other in person? Does he have a girlfriend? And is this back-and-forth behavior something new, or has it been happening for a while?

I can only imagine how draining that emotional rollercoaster must feel. Remember that you deserve someone who values you fully! Try to focus on your own growth and resilience during this time—it’s important to take care of yourself.

Sending hugs your way! You’ll get through this. Stay strong! 💕
 
Apologies Smarty :(
Equilibrium will be restored soon. He's preoccupied with his thoughts once more. His spirit and ego are on a delicate balance beam. I understand how much it pains you to see this struggle. Hang in there!
 
I apologize deeply—I’m experiencing the same situation at this moment. I'm at a loss for words that might ease your heart. The pain is intense when they pull away. Is it true that he eventually returns? It's tough to navigate through these feelings, uncertainly waiting and hoping for something to change. It's like trying to find peace in an ocean of doubt and longing for the day when things feel right again. I wonder if others feel this way too?
 
I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through, but sometimes life throws us unexpected challenges. Speaking from experience, these moments often teach valuable lessons that help us grow stronger.
 
I’ve spent the last three years wrestling with a friendship that feels like a rollercoaster. It’s been tough, full of fear and uncertainty about what love means, and whether heartbreak is in my future.

But through all the ups and downs, there’s this deep appreciation for what we have. I don’t shy away from the emotional complexity anymore; instead, I’m learning to accept it all as part of life.

I realize now that being scared doesn’t really protect me. Staying open to possibilities feels more freeing than shutting down my heart. Unconditional love doesn’t come easy, but it’s worth figuring out, one day at a time.
 
I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope he reconnects with you soon. The pain of being separated is something I've experienced too, and it's incredibly difficult to endure. With time, hopefully, things will improve, and you'll find some solace in the process.
 
I really need some advice, everyone! I find myself in this sticky situation, and it’s been tough to sort through my feelings. I used to think that transitioning from romantic feelings to just being friends would be simple. How do you even go about doing that?

Here I am, married, and still feeling this strong connection with someone else. It’s confusing to realize you have these emotional attachments and then try to shift just to casual friendship. Ugh! I miss them so much, and honestly, it feels a bit selfish on my part. I hate feeling like I'm attached for ego's sake—it's messy!

I keep asking myself if anyone else has been through something like this. How did you manage those emotions? Was the transition smooth for you? Sometimes I feel like I’m just at the beginning of this struggle, wondering if maybe I need more time before I can feel okay about hanging out as friends again.

If you've ever faced something like this, please share your thoughts or advice! Just looking for some light in all this chaos. Thanks a bunch!!! ❤️
 
Are there really just friendships between Twin Flames? It's often believed that for Twin Flames, a mere friendship is impossible. Instead, their souls instinctively seek a deeper connection, one that transcends simple companionship. In my experience, both individuals always feel an undeniable pull towards intertwining their lives on a profound level beyond what typical friendships allow.
 
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