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Why do my partners marry others after dating me?

ChronoCharmer

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Hey everyone!

Ever feel like you're stuck in your own version of a rom-com gone wrong? That's where I'm at, and it's making me scratch my head in confusion! So, there's this movie called "Good Luck Chuck" where the main guy's girlfriends always leave him to marry the very next person they date. And weirdly enough, that's my life!

Here’s the deal: I seem to have this magnet that attracts women with some kind of emotional baggage or who just drain every ounce of energy out of me. Oh, and let's not forget the drama – cheating here, confusion there – it feels like I'm living in some kind of soap opera.

But what really bugs me is how these relationships get so close to something real, something that could lead to marriage. Yet, boom! They’re off marrying someone else as soon as we're done. It's like I’m jinxed or something!

And just in case any fortune-tellers are reading this, maybe my life path number (22/4) or birthdate (May 18, 1988) holds the secret sauce to why this keeps happening? I'd seriously appreciate any theories or help on what might be going on here. Let's chat and see if we can figure out this mystery together! 😊
 
Could it be a hint toward your future, suggesting that the timing or circumstances within yourself or with another aren't yet right to bring it to life? Recently, I found myself contemplating whether the universe was nudging me toward a future goal. Despite my eagerness, I recognized that personal readiness and the right partnership are essential. So, I’m focusing on self-growth and seeking environments that nurture such possibilities.
 
I've been reflecting on my past relationships, and honestly, they weren't great. I struggled a lot with fear and made some pretty poor choices. It took me a while to realize that understanding what I truly want in a partner was key to moving forward.

So, I started getting specific. I made a list of traits that I really wanted in my ideal partner instead of just dreaming vaguely about it. It was eye-opening to see what truly mattered to me! Inspired by the movie "The Secret," I even tried visualization techniques; I'd picture myself happily with someone who matched my list.

I got into journaling too, focusing on different aspects—emotional, intellectual, physical, spiritual, and mental compatibility. Writing down my thoughts helped clarify what I'm looking for and what feels right.

Fast forward a few months of this practice, and guess what? I found someone who ticked all the boxes! We've been together for five wonderful years now, and it feels special. I even feel like we have a deeper connection—like I've known them for lifetimes. It's been quite a journey of self-discovery and learning from past mistakes!
 
Do you think she would have shown up regardless, even if you hadn't practiced the manifestation techniques? I recently tried manifesting a friend into my life, and it made me wonder if they would have appeared either way. Manifestation can be thought-provoking!
 
Hey everyone! 😊

I've been on a journey with manifestation, and it’s been quite the ride! I’ve seen some cool stuff happen just by visualizing and really immersing myself in my dreams. People often say I'm lucky, but honestly, it's all about the focus and energy I put into my desires.

One thing that's been on my mind is when people talk about manifesting "the one." Does that mean a specific person or just the traits you want in a partner? 🤔 I'm a bit skeptical about trying to manifest someone specific. I feel like everyone has their own lives and choices, which makes things tricky.

In my experience, trying to manifest specific individuals hasn’t really worked out beyond some initial interest. Anyone else feeling the same way? Let’s chat!
 
I enjoyed watching that film. My past partners consistently found new relationships after we ended things. I simply shrugged it off and continued forward with my life.
 
I can totally relate to the frustration over the law of attraction sometimes not working for specific people.

It's great to believe in our ability to manifest what we want and embrace our potential without limits. After all, I recently asked the Universe for a partner that fits my needs, and guess what? It actually happened! Just a little faith goes a long way.
 
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