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Do Runners Forget Their Stayers?

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TwineTurns

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Lately, I've been diving into stories about twin flames and soul connections and, let me tell you, it's fascinating! I keep reading all these tales where there's always a runner and a stayer. The runner’s behavior almost seems dictated, like they’re under some spell. They get all caught up in their own world, while the poor stayer is left wondering what on earth went wrong.

This whole concept gets my wheels turning because I had a similar experience. Imagine this: one minute everything's fine, and the next, they act like communicating with you is the last thing on their mind. It feels like they’ve forgotten you entirely! The mix of hurt and confusion is real. But then I can't help but think: Is it some sort of control tactic? Or could it honestly be that they just forget because something in them is blocked?

Over time, I've made progress in not letting myself feel ‘forgettable.’ It's hard work for sure! Yet I still wonder if forgetting is just natural for runners or if there's something deeper going on. Anyone else out there who's had similar thoughts or experiences? Would love to hear how others have navigated this rollercoaster!
 
How do you handle situations where uncertainty or mixed feelings cause you to delay taking action? I've often found myself procrastinating, only to realize that the longer I wait, the heavier the guilt becomes for not responding to someone. It's as though the act of forgetting isn't intentional, yet the passage of time amplifies the discomfort and self-blame associated with it. Sometimes it feels like a snowball effect—one small delay can lead to a much larger sense of anxiety over time.
 
Is it truly possible to forget completely? From my experience, I managed to forget for a time, but there's always something lingering in the background. Memories have a way of resurfacing unexpectedly. Forever forgetting seems elusive, as certain feelings or impressions persist in your mind.
 
ksjm33... you raise some interesting questions.. I'm curious about that too—does the runner experience emotions at all? I've often wondered if athletes, especially runners, connect emotionally with their environment.
 
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