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There is a beautiful and ancient guideline that has always resonated with me: “Satyam bruyat priyam bruyat na bruyat satyam apriyam.” It’s a simple yet profound reminder that when we speak, we should strive for two things at once—truth and kindness.
The essence of this teaching is that truth is an eternal value, something we all hold dear. But the way we share that truth matters just as much as the truth itself. If we speak something that is factually correct but harsh and hurtful, we are, in a way, missing the point. The goal is not just to state facts, but to do so in a way that uplifts and helps others grow.
Imagine a friend makes a mistake in a public setting. You could say, “That was wrong,” and be perfectly accurate. Or, you could gently take them aside and say, “I think you may have overlooked something there. Let me help you look at it another way.” Both share the same truth, but the second approach is loving and constructive. It preserves their dignity and makes them more open to learning.
There is a lovely story that illustrates this perfectly. A king once called two astrologers to hear his fortune. The first one looked at the charts and bluntly said, “Your Majesty, your fate is dark. You will lose all your relatives one by one.” The king was deeply hurt and angry, and he punished the astrologer. The second astrologer looked at the same charts and said with a warm smile, “Your Majesty, you will live a very long life. In fact, you will outlive all of your relatives.” The king was pleased and rewarded him generously.
Both astrologers conveyed the same truth—that the king would live longer than his family. But one spoke without care, causing pain, while the other chose words that were gentle and wise. The difference was not in truthfulness but in intention and delivery. The second astrologer honored the principle of “priyam,” making the truth acceptable and even comforting.
So, when we share our thoughts with others, let us pause and reflect. Are we speaking the truth just to be right, or are we speaking it to be helpful? A kind truth builds bridges, while a harsh one can break them. By choosing our words with compassion, we honor both honesty and humanity.
This simple guideline keeps our communication aligned with what is good and right. It reminds us that loving words are never wasted, and that a gentle approach can transform even difficult conversations into moments of growth. So, let’s speak the truth, but always with a smile and a generous heart!
The essence of this teaching is that truth is an eternal value, something we all hold dear. But the way we share that truth matters just as much as the truth itself. If we speak something that is factually correct but harsh and hurtful, we are, in a way, missing the point. The goal is not just to state facts, but to do so in a way that uplifts and helps others grow.
Imagine a friend makes a mistake in a public setting. You could say, “That was wrong,” and be perfectly accurate. Or, you could gently take them aside and say, “I think you may have overlooked something there. Let me help you look at it another way.” Both share the same truth, but the second approach is loving and constructive. It preserves their dignity and makes them more open to learning.
There is a lovely story that illustrates this perfectly. A king once called two astrologers to hear his fortune. The first one looked at the charts and bluntly said, “Your Majesty, your fate is dark. You will lose all your relatives one by one.” The king was deeply hurt and angry, and he punished the astrologer. The second astrologer looked at the same charts and said with a warm smile, “Your Majesty, you will live a very long life. In fact, you will outlive all of your relatives.” The king was pleased and rewarded him generously.
Both astrologers conveyed the same truth—that the king would live longer than his family. But one spoke without care, causing pain, while the other chose words that were gentle and wise. The difference was not in truthfulness but in intention and delivery. The second astrologer honored the principle of “priyam,” making the truth acceptable and even comforting.
So, when we share our thoughts with others, let us pause and reflect. Are we speaking the truth just to be right, or are we speaking it to be helpful? A kind truth builds bridges, while a harsh one can break them. By choosing our words with compassion, we honor both honesty and humanity.
This simple guideline keeps our communication aligned with what is good and right. It reminds us that loving words are never wasted, and that a gentle approach can transform even difficult conversations into moments of growth. So, let’s speak the truth, but always with a smile and a generous heart!